Sonntag, 21. März 2010

21 March 2010 @ 09:02 pm

Das mit Abstand einzigste, was mich zur Zeit nicht aufregt ist mit Hachan im MSN zu reden.
Allers andere, schon allein Konversationen zwischen bestimmten Leuten zu lesen, geht mir auch schon auf die Nerven.
Desweiteren geht es mir auf die Nerven, wenn Leute versuchen mein Interesse auf direkten Weg für etwas zu wecken, was ihnen gefällt.
Das fängt bei amerikanischen TV Serien an. Ich hab genug amerikanische Serien im Fernsehen (die ich allesamt sowieso rotzig finde). Wenn ich selber welche sehen wollte, dann würd ich die auch suchen.
LJ geht mir auch irgendwie auf die Nerven aber nicht weil hier zu viel abgeht, sondern zu wenig in den letzten Jahren. Ich mein ich hab 90+ Freunde auf der Freundesliste und davon schreiben immer nur die gleichen Leute. Klar Leute haben ein RL aber irgendwie..ich weiß nicht, die Luft scheint raus zu sein.  Naja von Kommentaren brauch man gar nicht reden.
Muss ich schon extrem ansprechende Einträge schreiben, die einen Effekt auf meine Flist hat um Kommentare zu erhaschen. Aber da ich darauf keine Lust hab, schalt ich die Kommentarfunktion mittlerweile eh aus. Erspart wenigstens auch auf die Kommentare zu antworten.
Aber ich glaub das beruht alles auf Gegenseitigkeit. Lesen ja..aber für Kommentare schreiben bin ich auch meist zu faul..aber ich war ja eh immer die Person, der es meist egal war ob sie Kommentare kriegt oder nicht weil ich ja für mich selbst schreibe.

Und dann merke ich..umso mehr ich mit ner Person befreundet bin..bzw sie näher kennenlerne desto mehr Macken lerne ich von der Person kennen, die mir auch nicht schmecken. Ich mein ja..jeder hat seine Macken aber wenn man sich näher kennenlernt, dann sieht man wenigstens ob man irgendwie kompatibel ist im Sinne von Freundschaft oder was weiß ich.  Aber eigentlich ist das auch nicht so schlimm wenns so ist, da ich eh keine Lust auf Busenfreundschaften habe. Gibt nix schlimmeres für mich als mich von einer Person abhängig zu machen und eifersüchtig zu werden weil die Person mal mit ner anderen redet und man paranoid wird a la: "Neeeein sie wird jetzt bestimmt ihre beste Freundin und ich bin dann abgeschmiert!" Kindische Gedanken..hmm

Ach ich hab doch noch nicht Yamanade 6 und 7 geguckt...naja vllt später..jetzt hab ich uch keine Lust! XD

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Though there is so much upcoming stuff this week...I just feel blah. Well actually there is nothing nice at all upcoming.
This week I will find out about if I get the apprenticeship or not. Unfortunately I don't know when she will call..so I just hope that she wont call when I am sitting at the dentist or when I am at the funeral on friday :(
well actually there is also my joblbhablah guy date I have never wished for but I dont thionk of going anyway. There is no point...but aah I really hope I can get this apprenticeship..this would solve a lot of stress and not uncomfortable feelings of sending more and more and more without knowing if I can make it..because the next 2 weeks after this one will be so lively with my sister and her husband..and my 3 nieces...and then going to bavaria. Yeah technically people wouldn't consider it stress but it makes me all go...X_X so many events which change the daily life for some time...well the dentist visit wont affect it xD

hmm..lets go with 2 episodes of yamanade then...ep6 and 7 :O

Samstag, 20. März 2010

Life

Sometimes I wonder why people tell you "My deepest condolences". I mean those people in black..which appear at the spot of the person who passed away...and then put the empty body away covered with a white blanket.
I mean..it's not something they feel honestly..because how can they feel like thatwhen they don't even know you or knew the person who died. It's something they have to say of course..because it's polite behaviour...but I think saying something like this is rather...something emotional..so they should only say it if they mean it..but then again..

I don't know..in some cases I find it rather hard to cry...like for my grandma..it's rather like it makes me cry that she didn't die earlier. Such a life...being the whole day in a bed..not being able to drink like a normal person...not able to eat normal food..not being able to talk...not able to do anything anymore except lying in the bed...getting meds..so many meds that you feel like on drug...being sleepy all the time...and sometimes being forced by the nurses to do some gymnastic...she was home..but in how far this is a life...caught in your body...for like 1 year just lying in this bed...sometimes she was still able to talk some stuff...just some words...
The last time I saw her..I don't know anymore..I don't know anymore if I even visit in 2010...the latest I remember was at the end of December when we decorated my grandpa's tree...well maybe it's a pity I didn't visit them often although they just live like 2 streets away...while my mum was goign there every day..doing duties..but then..I never visited them often...it's not like I didn't love her..it rather seemed so frustrating to me.
Everytime I saw her lying in this bed I thought of...how does she feel...what does she still know..what can she still think of...I don't know what was her brain health like anymore..but..at any rate..it was saddened me.

I don't know what were the reasons of her death in the end..if it was caused by her brain..or her heart..but what does it matter in the end
the fact that fell asleep peacefully, makes me at least a little bit happy.
I really think..people who are able to smile when they die..can't be afraid of death anymore..there can't be something horrible at the top of the stairs...or at the end of the tunnel...and I am somehow glad...when people who were caught in their body while being part of our world..finally can find Peace...and maybe continue "living" they want when they leave our world.
With the thought that my dad and my 2 grandmas are already on the other side..it somehow becomes less uncomfortable..well all 3 died much to early for sure..my dad just died at 34..my dad's mother I think with 70 or at the end of 60s at least..my mum's grandma with 75.
Well..I wonder what affects such things..like every body differs...may it be diseases which will come one by one..some people turn 90 without trouble...I mean my grandpa is about 78 or even 79 I think..but he's more or less still healthy.
But you know..there are older people...which can't deal with the death of their dearest person...and will die soon later. But for my grandpa..I think he's strong. He's really a tough guy..so xD
I am sorry for being so imageless but there are things like this..which can't really get conveyed through images...and there are entries when just a pic is enough without any writings.

Good-bye grandma...

4時間前にお母ちゃんのお母さんが死んでいた、、
静かに亡くなったのでなんかうれしいけど、もちろん悲しみもある、、

おばあちゃんが大好きなのに、、、ごめんなさい。
今日は何を言ったらいいのかわからない、、このまま日本語で考えるのはありえない、、

だから、ここで止めよう。


太陽に目を閉じて 永遠を夢にみて
永遠に眠り付く(たどりつく) 階段を上るだけ
So faraway So faraway So faraway So faraway
So faraway No faraway So faraway No faraway ムード
( will always dedicate this song to my dearest people who passed away...)


さよなら、愛しい人、、さよならおばあちゃんハート

(I just copied it from my mixi entry because...yeah...added the other bracket part just here though.)